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Themes of Estranged Parents' Forums Introduction Themes: "Our children want to hurt us" Themes: "I just want to beat his ass" Themes: "We're not perfect, and neither are they" Themes: "I'm contacting my estranged child for me, not her" Themes: "Unwanted contact isn't stalking" Themes: "Abuse is rare" Themes: "Truly abusive parents don't care" Themes: "They want us to chase them" Themes: "Our children don't really believe they were abused" Themes: "They're laughing at us" Why Do Adult Children Estrange?: The Parents' Take Why Do Adult Children Estrange?: The Children's Explanations Notes All-or-Nothing Relationships Contradictory Beliefs, Double Standards The Absence of Categories Resources for Children of Abusers Names Japanese Girls' Names Japanese Boys' Names Geisha Names Japanese Courtesans' Names Lower-Ranking Prostitutes' Names Women's Names in Edo-Era Japan: The Early Edo Period (1600 to 1700) Japanese Name Resources Haitian Names Victorian Names 18th-Century Women's Names French Arthurian Names Names from Prester John's Kingdom Japan Japanese Names Japanese Girls' Names Japanese Boys' Names Geisha Names Courtesans' Names Lower-Ranking Prostitutes' Names Women's Names in Edo-Era Japan: The Early Edo Period (1600 to 1700) Japanese Name Resources Japanese Courtesans: Oiran and TayÅ« Japanese Courtesans' Names About Japanese Courtesans' Names Lower-Ranking Prostitutes' Names How Old Were They? A Snapshot of a Small Pleasure Quarter in 1860 But Were They Working Prostitutes? Kamuro Bantō-Shinzō Oiran and TayÅ« Resources Researching in Japanese Primary Documents Reading Saiken Japanese Blood Types and Personality Kitsune, Kumiho, Huli Jing, Fox Miso Soup for the Otaku Soul Manga and Doujinshi Bishonen Zozenawayone: Speaking Japanese Find a Job Young and Broke: Student Jobs Summer Adventures Winter Adventures Writing Jobs Reviews Book Reviews Movie Reviews Game Reviews -- Silliness Jedi Training The Tough Guide to Animeland If I Ever Become an Anime Character... If I Ever Become a Dragonball Character... You Know You Watch Too Much Anime When... The Twinkie Sandwich Challenge Rants On Freedom An Etiquette Lesson for Gamers A Brief Rant Concerning Yaoi Warnings Hyper Is the New Feminine Secrets of the Old Masters "...And Her Hair Turned White!" 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Themes of Estranged Parents' Forums Introduction Themes: "Our children want to hurt us" Themes: "I just want to beat his ass" Themes: "We're not perfect, and neither are they" Themes: "I'm contacting my estranged child for me, not her" Themes: "Unwanted contact isn't stalking" Themes: "Abuse is rare" Themes: "Truly abusive parents don't care" Themes: "They want us to chase them" Themes: "Our children don't really believe they were abused" Themes: "They're laughing at us" Why Do Adult Children Estrange?: The Parents' Take Why Do Adult Children Estrange?: The Children's Explanations Notes All-or-Nothing Relationships Contradictory Beliefs, Double Standards The Absence of Categories Resources for Children of Abusers Names Japanese Girls' Names Japanese Boys' Names Geisha Names Japanese Courtesans' Names Lower-Ranking Prostitutes' Names Women's Names in Edo-Era Japan: The Early Edo Period (1600 to 1700) Japanese Name Resources Haitian Names Victorian Names 18th-Century Women's Names French Arthurian Names Names from Prester John's Kingdom Japan Japanese Names Japanese Girls' Names Japanese Boys' Names Geisha Names Courtesans' Names Lower-Ranking Prostitutes' Names Women's Names in Edo-Era Japan: The Early Edo Period (1600 to 1700) Japanese Name Resources Japanese Courtesans: Oiran and TayÅ« Japanese Courtesans' Names About Japanese Courtesans' Names Lower-Ranking Prostitutes' Names How Old Were They? A Snapshot of a Small Pleasure Quarter in 1860 But Were They Working Prostitutes? Kamuro Bantō-Shinzō Oiran and TayÅ« Resources Researching in Japanese Primary Documents Reading Saiken Japanese Blood Types and Personality Kitsune, Kumiho, Huli Jing, Fox Miso Soup for the Otaku Soul Manga and Doujinshi Bishonen Zozenawayone: Speaking Japanese Find a Job Young and Broke: Student Jobs Summer Adventures Winter Adventures Writing Jobs Reviews Book Reviews Movie Reviews Game Reviews -- Silliness Jedi Training The Tough Guide to Animeland If I Ever Become an Anime Character... If I Ever Become a Dragonball Character... You Know You Watch Too Much Anime When... The Twinkie Sandwich Challenge Rants On Freedom An Etiquette Lesson for Gamers A Brief Rant Concerning Yaoi Warnings Hyper Is the New Feminine Secrets of the Old Masters "...And Her Hair Turned White!" Because Vikings Just Luuurved to Travel Game Reviews Final Fantasy 7 The Useless Guide to Final Fantasy IX Final Fantasy X Final Fantasy X-2 Kingdom Hearts Xenosaga Vagrant Story Page Menu Geisha Names Step into the world of the geisha and learn how new maiko get their professional names. Read more → Sick Systems How to Keep Someone With You Forever So you want to keep your lover or your employee close. Bound to you, even. How do you pin her to your side, irrevocably, permanently, and perfectly legally? You create a sick system. → Down the Rabbit Hole The World of Estranged Parents' Forums The members of estranged parents' forums claim their children cut them off for no reason, but their own postings say otherwise. Come into a topsy-turvy world where stalking is love. Read on → Haitian Names Nadège. Jenniflore. Mardochée. Islande. Myrlande. Rose-Merline. There's an entire world of beautiful names you've never heard before. Read on → Japanese Courtesans Tayû. Oiran. Once upon a time, there were courtesans so magnificent that the geisha were only their hired help. They're long gone, but the traces of their world remain. Read on → -- What's New Latest Updated May 31 2016 Estranged Parents Confront Their Children's Reasons Estranged parents react to the reasons an adult child gives for her strained relationship with a forum member. May 24 2016 When the Missing Reasons Aren't Missing An example of the lengths an estranged parent can go to to deny that her child gave her a reason for the estrangement... while listing off the reasons her child gave her. Mar 3 2016 Why Do Adult Ch...